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Phoebe, Brisbane, 20.

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"Trust the vibes you get, energy doesn’t lie."
— (via wolf-cub)
Hangin out the window

Yet again I’ve left an assignment until the very last minute and, while granted it’s an assignment that can be done in the four hours I’ve given myself to do it, it doesn’t change the fact that I had all day yesterday off work for the first Saturday in ages, and instead of finishing it off so that I could get home from an 8 hour shift today and have a bit of a max chill, I got drunk and did nothing of any real importance instead. Now I’m going to have to stay up to finish it before 11:59pm and I just really, really need to stop doing this. I got my exam timetable yesterday so have a definitive date that I’ll be finished this semester and 5 more weeks. 5 more weeks, two more assignments after this and the final exam. I’m sick of being frustrated with myself, so my goals for this week which just so happens to also be mid-semester break is:

  • start on my final essay for journalism and get it done by the end of next week;
  • get the house in order, I am so tired of everything being cluttered, including my head;
  • find a routine again, sitting in bed until midday, leaving assignments until the last minute, getting drunk instead of completing responsibilities, eating crap and not actively seeking out experiences that force me to evolve and grow is bullshit and I’m angry for allowing myself to get to this point, and;
  • work on developing a more positive mindset towards work. I am so incredibly lucky to have such a good paying job that gives me as many hours as I need. Working ~30 hours a week on top of everything else is exhausting, yes, but I should be grateful that I have the opportunity to be so financially comfortable in a job where I’m surrounded by awesome colleagues that make even the shittiest of customers bearable

Time to kick my own arse back into gear, because this isn’t working for me.


xiao wen ju @ christophe lemaire ss 2015

i remember being fourteen and looking at my friends older siblings who were twenty and to me, they seemed so old and together and adult and now i’m twenty?? in fact i’m almost not twenty anymore?? i’m not an adult???? but i am?? when do you start to feel like an adult??? when will i start to look like an adult??????? i am drunk and this is not a nice meme



reasons I can relate to a possum:

-tired & unkempt, smells weird
-emotions ranging from “displeased” to “existential scream”
-no work ethic
-lies around looking dead when overwhelmed
-will eat trash & live amongst trash if left to own devices
-sometimes you feel bad and feed it a sandwich


森絵梨佳 (Erika Mori): Vikka


The original is good, the comment is STUNNING. Love it!

So, basically, this is a symbolic representation of internalized misogyny:

So Far, This Fifth Grader’s Diary Entry is the Most Punk Rock Thing Ever
Nothing screams punk like i’s dotted with hearts.
"I love you, but I’m mad at you is one of the most freeing, important things you can say in a stable relationship. Does that make sense? To know that you have the ability and the right to be mad at someone and know that it doesn’t mean things are over, that it doesn’t mean things are irreparable. That it just means I’m mad, but God, I love you. I love you. Now leave me alone."
To be good, to save nothing (via nonelikejesus)

And that goes for non-romantic relationships. This can be true of platonic friendships, familial relationships, etc.

(via misandry-mermaid)